How 8 Women Shopped for Their 40th Birthdays

Eva Chen, Vice President of Fashion & Shopping Partnerships at Instagram

portraits of women in fashion reflecting on what they purchased for their 40th birthday

Courtesy

“My 40th year was spent in full-on nesting mode, decorating our weekend house with all sorts of Instagram discoveries! One of my favorite pieces, not to sound fully vain, is a mirror from the company Glare Goods. I found them on Instagram via the super chic @saycollie account. They upcycle old mirrors into new shapes, and they made several gorgeous, organic-shaped blobby mirrors from a giant mirror in my apartment I no longer had room for. Obviously it complements my wardrobe because, well, I’ve been known to post a mirror selfie or two!”

Glare Goods Mirror No.1

Credit: Glare Goods

Rajni Jacques, Global Head of Fashion & Beauty at Snapchat

Courtesy

“I never really thought about age much. But when 40 was looming, that was all I could dream about. What I learned in the months leading up to the big birthday was that I’m at a place where my style is my own. I wasn’t copying someone else’s look or trying to decorate myself in ways that did not feel authentic and genuine. I had cultivated my own taste and created a space that I was more than happy to be in. Yet I was very indecisive about what to buy myself to mark this important milestone. Honestly, it wasn’t until about three days ago that I knew what I wanted: a massage and this secret diamond initial ring by Mateo. I don’t have it yet. But it’s coming.”

Advertisement - Continue Reading Below

Mateo Initials Diamond, Quartz & 14K-Gold Ring

Credit: MatchesFashion

Carla Rockmore, Content Creator and Jewelry Designer

Stewart Cohen

“When I was 40, I decided to treat myself to a vintage Chanel top-handle marvel of a bag. I was walking down the winding streets of Paris when I saw this beauty calling for me from an enchanting boutique window. It was the perfect grainy leather that wears well with age, achingly chic, and the perfect proportion for both day and night. It was also very expensive for a woman sample shopping on her way to inspect garments in India.… Regardless, and with reckless abandon, I splurged on that fabulous bag and never looked back. I have worn it on so many occasions that if I amortized those years of wear, it would be considered a steal.”

Chanel Pre-Owned 1997 CC Diamond-Quilted Handbag

Credit: Farfetch

Advertisement - Continue Reading Below

Claire Sulmers, Founder of FashionBombDaily

Courtesy

“I purchased my first Hermès Birkin bag when I turned 40. To me, the purchase signified being a boss woman about her business! I keep it in its box and dust bag most of the time, but I do pull it out occasionally for travel, investor meetings, and high-wattage fashion shows. It’s truly an asset—a classic bag that goes with just about anything. It’s something I can see passing on to my future children.”

Hermès Birkin Handbag Noir Clemence with Palladium Hardware 35

Now 78% Off

Credit: 1stDibs

Aya Kanai, Head of Editorial and Creative at Google Shopping

Courtesy

“I bought [a ring that] features a charming flying pig, and the back has an inscription: ‘Anything is possible.’ I bought it because I thought it was beautiful, and I love Kirsty Stone’s collection and supporting a female founder. This ring perfectly demonstrated the moment in time I was living. I was pregnant with my daughter and had spent a long time trying to create a family. I wanted to commemorate not only turning 40 but also having a baby! I still wear it every day and look forward to giving it to my kiddo when she is grown up.”

Advertisement - Continue Reading Below

Retrouvai Grandfather Fantasy Signet - Flying Pig

Credit: Retrouvai

Tracy Reese, Designer

Courtesy

“For my 40th birthday, I treated myself to a vacation to Jamaica with friends and bought my first serious jewelry, a pair of 1.5-carat diamond studs. I’d never paid so much for a personal item outside of purchasing my apartment and furnishings. I felt very mature! It seemed like a good investment at the time, but now I’d rather have lab-grown diamonds so I can be completely certain they are conflict-free.”

Brilliant Earth Certified Lab-Created Diamond Stud Earrings

Credit: Brilliant Earth

Advertisement - Continue Reading Below

Marina Larroudé, Designer

Courtesy

“As I was turning 40, I had this perception that it was my last decade to wear miniskirts…but then I also realized that I shouldn’t take life so seriously. I should (and would) wear whatever I want and be my unapologetic self. So for my 40th birthday party, I bought myself a mini rainbow bodycon dress from Sies Marjan. The minute I saw the dress in his showroom, I knew I needed it for my 40th birthday party. I decided to embrace the taste of my seven-year-old self and had the best time while doing it. Anytime I want to have a fun night, I wear my unicorn dress.”

PatBo Prism Lurex One-Shoulder Minidress

Now 60% Off

Credit: PatBo

Jessie Randall, Designer

Courtesy

“I don’t normally like birthdays or like to celebrate them, but I went over the top for my 40th. I hosted a big dinner with about 40 of my girlfriends. The theme of the party was Jessie’s 40 Favorite Things, and I wanted to give a gift to my wonderful friends rather than receive anything. I worked with Emily Johnson of Hartland Brooklyn to create illustrations of the 40 things, which we then embossed onto beautiful clutches made from the same vachetta leather we use at Loeffler Randall. There were drawings of Larry David, Diet Coke, Roz Chast, etc., as well as drawings to represent each member of my family. I love seeing that a lot of my friends still use the bag. That party was such a gift to me.”

Advertisement - Continue Reading Below

Loeffler Randall Lennox Mini Flap Crossbody

Halie LeSavage is the fashion commerce editor at Harper's BAZAAR. Her style reporting covers everything from reviewing the best designer products to profiling emerging brands and designers. Previously, she was the founding retail writer at Morning Brew and a fashion associate at Glamour.

Advertisement - Continue Reading Below

ncG1vNJzZmivp6x7qa3RqZyrq5KWx6Kt0WeaqKVfm660tMiopWisopq7pb%2BOoGtpamVqhnp8jqCgn6yjYrOwvoxtZ2axlZa%2FbrvLnapo